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遺棄女嬰返華尋親，50多對父母前來認女,衹因她成了博士!
2016年4月26日 19:32
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美國《外交雜志》最近刊登了一位被美國家庭領養的中國女嬰，長大成人之后前往中國尋找親生父母經歷的文章。這位擁有美國國籍并從美國名校耶魯大學畢業的女生尋親的新聞在中國媒体報道后，五十多位曾經遺棄過女嬰的中國父母試圖認她為自己的女兒。
《外交雜志》發表的文章題為《“棄女”發聲：全中國傾聽》。文章的作者夏華斯（Jenna Cook）是一位20多年前被一名美國教師領養的中國棄嬰。2012年，就讀于耶魯大學的她回到“故鄉”武漢尋親，希望可以找到自己的親生父母。尋親過程中，她見到了50多個形形色色的中國家庭，可惜最后仍然沒有找到自己的親生父母。夏華斯在外交雜志上，從自己的角度上講述了這段尋親之旅的過程和感受。
1992年3月24日，一個剛剛出生一個月左右的女嬰被遺棄在武漢口宗關街街道辦門前，后來她被送往武漢市兒童福利院。同年6月底，一名叫瑪格麗特的美國女教師領養了她，給他起名夏華斯。夏華斯在异國得到了養母瑪格麗特的悉心照顧，她健康成長，并且受到了良好的教育，在2009年被耶魯大學錄取。但是夏華斯內心對根的渴望和對親生父母的思念讓她決心幵啟她的尋親之旅。2012年夏天，夏華斯在瑪格麗特的陪同下來到武漢尋親。沒有讓她想到的是，她的尋親之旅引來了媒体的廣泛關注。一時間，各大媒体競相報道了她的尋親經歷，公眾被她的尋親經歷所震撼，同時也引發了輿論的爭議。
外交雜志的文章透露出一些令人震惊的細節：“我所見過的 50 多個家庭都生活在深切且真實的悲愴中。他們擁抱我、他們痛哭流涕、他們對我鞠躬、他們祈求我的原諒”。
爭論
這么多中國父母來認親引發了爭論。有人認為，前來認親的家庭是因為可以在擁有美國國籍和在名校耶魯讀書的夏華斯身上有利可圖，若非圖利，這些家庭不會前來尋親。夏華斯本人在文中寫道，“有人警告我說我的親生父母可能會要占我便宜，你不應該找他們，當你找到他們后他們可能會對你不壞好意，比如向你要錢，或者要求去美國等。”
也有很多人認為，前來認親的家庭是因為遺棄孩子后良心備受譴責与血濃于水的挂念，而夏華斯的經歷揭幵了他們內心塵封已久的傷痛。
女權無疆界主席瑞洁（Reggie Littlejohn）在接受VOA記者采訪時說，“夏華斯的故事中還有一點很触動人的心弦，這么多的家庭來看望她，來确定夏華斯是否是他們的女兒。不止是母親來了，父親也來了，他們對于遺棄女兒很痛心，他們一生都在擔心她，祈禱她過得好，當他們發現有一個女孩也在那時被遺棄時，他們迫不及待的來看她，以确定她是不是他們的女兒。”
被棄女嬰數目惊人
夏華斯的故事引發了一個嚴肅的話題：到底有多少中國女嬰被遺棄？她們被遺棄的原因是什么？
前來認親的50個多個家庭都知道，要想認夏華斯作親女兒顯然需要進行親子鑑定，然而他們還是義無反顧地前來驗DNA，說明至少有50個左右的家庭在1992年3月武漢的同一條街道上遺棄了女嬰，那么一個月中又有多少女嬰在武漢的其它街道被遺棄，一年中全中國又有多少女嬰被遺棄？
据統計，全中國每年約有10萬兒童被遺棄。在1992年到2013年間，中國共計139，696起國際父母收養中國兒童的案例，而被外國人收養的中國遺棄嬰兒中，超過90%的是女嬰。瑞洁（Reggie Littlejohn）在接受美國之音記者采訪的時候說：“在中國數百萬甚至數千萬的女嬰被拋棄 ，其中許多女嬰是被流產了，所以被遺棄的女嬰還是‘幸運的’ ，而被收養的女嬰則是‘十分幸運的’，這樣的比例很小。女嬰被拋棄的原因是，中國還有其他亞洲國家和世界上的部分國家都有嚴重的重男輕女的思想，他們覺得自己必須有一個男孩。而在（中國的）一胎化政策下，人們衹能生育一個孩子，所以他們必須确保這個孩子是個兒子, 女兒就被自然而然的拋棄了。現在二胎政策是不會阻止這种狀況的，人們同樣會遺棄第二個女兒，他們要确保兩個孩子中有一個是男孩。”
夏華斯在文章中解釋了她到中國尋根的動机。她寫道：“我想要尋找我的親生父母，因為不論結果如何，經歷著尋找的過程對于我來說是個解脫。” 生活在美國佛羅里達州的昭茹（Grace）也有著相似的經歷。昭茹是在三歲時被美國父母收養的中國棄嬰，如今19歲的她正在通過微博、你好聊聊（Hello Talk）、QQ來尋找她的宜昌親生父母。她表示，“他們（養父母）很好，很關心我，我過得很幸福，但還是希望找到我的親生父母，和我有血緣關系的父母”。迄今為止，夏華斯和昭茹都還沒有找到她們的親生父母，但是她們都表示自己不會放棄。
網民熱議
夏華斯的經歷在互聯網上引發了諸多評論。網友相思雨評論說：“你現在需要的就是，好好孝敬你那美國媽媽，多么的偉大呀。”
網友心机boy爾康評論說：“姑娘，何必回來，你的親生父母當初衹是為了生兒子，如今相認就是為了抱大腿。”網友圍觀世界的博也發表評論說：“不是美國，不是耶魯，誰會碰運气呢？”
網友夕陽西下的地盤則提出一個令人振聾發聵的問題：“看到了吧，這就是即將到來的三千萬光棍的原因。政策，政策，導致多少女孩胎死腹中，多少女孩被遺棄自生自滅。”
瑞洁：強制墮胎是對中國婦女的戰爭 (美國之音方冰拍攝)
瑞洁：強制墮胎是對中國婦女的戰爭 (美國之音方冰拍攝)
一些網民表示了不同意見。他們認為丟棄女嬰的行為是個案，不能和善良和冷酷等民族性聯系起來。“學習旅” 發表評論說：哪個社會沒有問題。中國文化博大精深，中國人怎么做完全是中國人的權利，中國人完全有能力解決自己的問題。不明白中國關這些洋人什么事，憑什么萬里迢迢來指手畫腳，高人一等居高臨下地來展示他們的所謂慈善，借此羞辱中國人？還偏偏有數典忘祖無恥之徒跪倒在這些西方价值觀前頂禮膜拜，把祖國說得一無是處，其心可誅。
不過，更多的網友對收養棄嬰的美國家庭點贊，稱這是一個“感人的故事。事情生，人感得到背後一股婡其巨大，又以形容的恩慈”。
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Submitted by: Just because she became a doctor on August 29, 2023 06:01:53:
The abandoned baby girl returned to China to find her relatives, and more than 50 pairs of parents came to recognize her.
At 19:32 on April 26, 2016,
Sun He
and Xia Huas were in a children's welfare home in China (screenshot from the Internet)
Xia Huas was in a children's welfare home in China. Children's Welfare Home (screenshot from the Internet)
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The US Foreign Affairs Magazine recently published an article about the experience of a Chinese baby girl who was adopted by an American family and later traveled to China to find her biological parents. After the news of this girl who has American citizenship and graduated from Yale University, a prestigious American school, was looking for her relatives, more than 50 Chinese parents who had abandoned their baby girls tried to claim her as their daughter.
The article published by Foreign Affairs Magazine is titled "Abandoned Daughters Speak Out: All of China Listens." The author of the article, Jenna Cook, is an abandoned Chinese baby who was adopted by an American teacher more than 20 years ago. In 2012, while studying at Yale University, she returned to her "hometown" Wuhan to look for relatives, hoping to find her biological parents. During the process of searching for her family, she met more than 50 Chinese families of all kinds, but unfortunately she still could not find her biological parents in the end. Xia Huasi described the process and feelings of this journey to find his family from his own perspective in Diplomacy Magazine.
On March 24, 1992, a baby girl who was just about one month old was abandoned in front of the Zongguan Street Office in Qiaokou, Wuhan. She was later sent to the Wuhan Children's Welfare Home. At the end of June of the same year, an American female teacher named Margaret adopted her and named him Xia Huas. Summers received careful care from her adoptive mother Margaret in a foreign country. She grew up healthily and received a good education. She was admitted to Yale University in 2009. But Xiahuasi's inner longing for her roots and longing for her biological parents made her determined to start her journey to find her parents. In the summer of 2012, Xia Huas, accompanied by Margaret, came to Wuhan to look for relatives. What she didn't expect was that her journey to find her family would attract widespread media attention. For a time, major media outlets reported on her family search experience. The public was shocked by her family search experience, and it also aroused controversy in public opinion.
The Diplomacy article revealed some shocking details: "More than 50 families I met were living with deep and real grief. They hugged me, they cried, they bowed to me, they prayed to me forgiveness".
debate
The fact that so many Chinese parents came to recognize their relatives sparked controversy. Some people believe that the families who come to recognize relatives do so because they can make a profit from Xia Huas, who has American citizenship and is studying at the prestigious Yale University. If it were not for the profit, these families would not come to find relatives. Xia Huas himself wrote in the article, "I was warned that my biological parents may want to take advantage of me. You should not go to them. When you find them, they may be kind to you, such as asking you for money. , or ask to go to the United States to wait."
There are also many people who believe that the families who come to recognize their relatives are because of their consciences and worries after abandoning their children. Xia Huas's experience has revealed the pain that has been buried in their hearts for a long time.
Reggie Littlejohn, president of Feminisms Without Borders, said in an interview with a VOA reporter, "There is something else about Xia Huasi's story that touches people's heartstrings. So many families came to visit her to determine whether Xia Huasi was theirs. The daughter. Not only the mother came, but the father also came. They were very sad about abandoning their daughter. They had been worried about her all their lives and prayed that she would live well. When they found out that a girl was also abandoned at that time, they couldn't wait They came to see her to find out if she was their daughter."
An alarming number of abandoned baby girls
Xia Huasi's story raises a serious topic: How many Chinese baby girls are abandoned? Why were they abandoned?
More than 50 families who came to identify their parents knew that a paternity test was obviously required to identify Xia Huas as their biological daughter. However, they still came without hesitation to take a DNA test, which showed that at least 50 families had done so in March 1992. A baby girl was abandoned on the same street in Wuhan in January. How many babies were abandoned on other streets in Wuhan in a month, and how many babies were abandoned in China in a year?
According to statistics, about 100,000 children are abandoned in China every year. Between 1992 and 2013, there were a total of 139,696 cases of Chinese children adopted by international parents in China. More than 90% of abandoned Chinese babies adopted by foreigners were girls. Reggie Littlejohn said in an interview with a VOA reporter: "Millions or even tens of millions of baby girls have been abandoned in China, and many of them have been aborted, so abandoned baby girls are still ' Lucky', while adopted baby girls are 'very lucky', which is a very small proportion. The reason why baby girls are abandoned is that China, other Asian countries and some countries in the world have serious son preference. Women's thoughts, they feel that they must have a boy. Under (China's) one-child policy, people can only have one child, so they must ensure that the child is a son, and daughters are naturally abandoned. Now two A one-child policy will not stop this, people will abandon their second daughter too and they want to make sure one of the two children is a boy."
In the article, Xiahuas explained her motivation for going to China to find her roots. She wrote: "I want to find my biological parents, because no matter what the result is, going through the process of searching is a relief for me." Zhaoru (Grace), who lives in Florida, USA, also has a similar experience. Zhaoru was an abandoned Chinese baby adopted by American parents when she was three years old. Now 19 years old, she is searching for her biological parents in Yichang through Weibo, Hello Talk, and QQ. She said, "They (the adoptive parents) are very good and care about me. I live a happy life, but I still hope to find my biological parents, parents who are biologically related to me." So far, Xiahuasi and Zhaoru have not found their biological parents, but they both said they will not give up.
Hot discussion among netizens
Xia Huasi's experience has prompted many comments on the Internet. Netizen Xiang Siyu commented: "What you need now is to honor your American mother, how great she is."
Netizen Boy Erkang commented: "Girl, why come back? Your biological parents only wanted to have a son, and now they meet just to hug each other." Netizen Bo also commented: "It's not the United States, it's not Yale, Who would try their luck?”
Netizen Sunset Xijitian raised a shocking question: "You see, this is the reason for the upcoming 30 million bachelors. Policies, policies, how many girls have been stillborn, how many girls have been abandoned to fend for themselves. Destroy."
Ruijie: Forced abortion is a war against Chinese women (photographed by VOA Fang Bing)
Ruijie: Forced abortion is a war against Chinese women (photographed by VOA Fang Bing)
Some netizens expressed different opinions. They believe that the act of abandoning baby girls is an individual case and cannot be linked to national characteristics such as kindness and ruthlessness. "Study Brigade" commented: Which society does not have problems? Chinese culture is profound and profound. What the Chinese people do is entirely the right of the Chinese people. The Chinese people are fully capable of solving their own problems. I don’t understand what China has to do with these foreigners, why do they come all the way to point fingers and show their so-called charity in a condescending way to humiliate the Chinese people? However, there are countless shameless people who have forgotten their ancestors and knelt down before these Western values to worship, saying that the motherland is worthless, and their intentions are to be punished.
However, more netizens praised the American family that adopted an abandoned baby, saying it was a "touching story. When something like this happened, people felt an extremely huge and indescribable kindness behind it."
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